My dearest, life can be cruel, but when all the goodness comes together there is no moment as sweet. You are my love, my life, my friend! Without you, I would only be half the person that I am. I can't wait for the day when we can be together forever. I knew then that I was falling in love with you, and my love for you has gotten stronger each passing day. I can still see you sitting on the wall outside the motel I was staying in. You were there for me when I needed a friend to confide in and for support when my sister was ill. And it will be real, true, and wonderful.We first started chatting online, as buddies do, almost two years ago.

Build what you need to be in a healthy relationship. Use your time out of a relationship wisely. Real, true love is work and when you understand that, you'll be less likely to go in and out of relationships in which you'll experience anything but love. You deserve to be treated with love and respect - in all your relationships. For non-love relationships - such as those with friends, co-workers, and even acquaintances - respect is the action from you and the action to you. Every day - whether in a relationship or not - asserts that love is what you do and not what you say.

Finally, true love is an action from you and to youĪct it and insist on it. Because life is busy, you may adjust how much time you give your interests and loved ones. But it’s important to maintain the fullness of who you are, just as your partner does the same. To nest in a new relationship is normal - but after a time, you settle in and get back to your routine. You can be a person who makes things happen or a person to whom things happen. What's missing for you? You don’t have to officially meditate - unless - you want to, but be still and quiet. Think about what you need in life to feel better or do better. Spend quiet time alone each day-without interruption. Not only that, you aren't a victim - you're in control, so take it. Victimizing yourself isn't attractive to healthy people. Disengage from a need to be pitied.Īre you telling yourself or others stories about being taken advantage of trying to generate sympathy? Stop. People stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics - including me when I was - are stuck in denial and rationalization. Those who keep you guessing about how they feel about you don't feed your soul - they deplete it. Choose people who know that trust is earned and that once broken, can be impossible to get back. Be with those who are loving, respectful, honest, and open.

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